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Organize a Playroom So your Child will Play with Their Toys!

Inside: Learn how to organize a child’s playroom so they can learn to play independently, and so you can get a few minutes to get your stuff done too.


“Mommy, will you play with me?” I sigh, and use my favorite trick for when he asks me to play.  “Honey, I will play with you, but I need 5 minutes to finish this laundry, then I’m all yours. Let’s set a timer.”

He heads to his playroom, and not even 2 minutes later, he’s back.

Not going to lie, this is getting old.

Like all kids, my son loves to play, and he wants to play with me most of the time.

But, sometimes I don’t want to, or can’t play right when he wants me to.

I know that sounds bad, but it’s been getting really bad lately.  This kid just can’t seem to play by himself.

He has been having a very difficult time playing independently, and therefore always underfoot. He wants to be where we are and wants us to play with him all day long.

Seriously, he can’t play in his playroom for more than 5 minutes without seeking one of us out.  I know that developmentally it’s pretty normal at his age, but it was very abnormal for him…and frustrating for us.

Get the playroom organized so your child will actually play with their toys! Some great tips here!

When this would happen before I would rotate his toys, and problem solved (at least for a few weeks).

However, I had rotated his toys not long ago and I saw little improvement.

I also noticed that he’s been struggling with independently playing since we moved into our new house.

One day out of complete frustration, I decided to go ahead and do another toy rotation.

In the middle of it, I stepped back and took look at his environment to see if anything needed a change.

Um, yep, there was a lot to be improved upon here.

Being a play therapist and also working in preschools for 4 years has taught me a bit about how to organize a playroom.

It was suddenly so clear why he was having a hard time playing in his playroom.

There were three major problem areas.

Playroom Problems, organizing toys, kid's room

Problem #1: Open shelving sitting on the floor. 

J never played with toys in here….I mean NEVER!  And really, how could he?

He can’t see what’s inside and can’t get to them without having to be on the floor.  It was just a place that he didn’t have easy access to his toys.

Problem #2:  Closed shelving and drawers. 

His cars are kept in the drawers and he will open and play with those daily.

However, the closed cabinet next to the drawers was never opened.  There were some cool toys in there, but he didn’t explore it.  Again, not an easy access to his toys.

Problem #3:  Too many toys in unorganized baskets on top of shelving. 

I tried very hard to keep these organized, but because of their placement, they always felt messy and out of place.

I noticed that J had difficulty focusing on these toys and they ended up being a huge mess most of the time.

The solution….a complete playroom redo!

playroom redo, kids' toys, organizing

I started off by putting away a lot of toys. I tried to keep out only 15 toys, or sets of toys.  You’ll see that I went over a little bit, but there are far fewer toys out than before.  I’m still working on getting rid of more.

The first thing I did was stack the shelving on top of the drawers and cabinet.  This way the toys on the shelf are at eye level and J can find what he’s looking for.

Playroom redo, organizing, kid's toys

  • Top shelf has puzzles, microphone, cell phone, markers, paper, and stickers.
  • Next shelf has two large cars with people, shape sorters, stacking cups, and wooden blocks.
  • Top drawer holds all his many cars. Bottom drawer has his animals.
  • About half of his food and cooking utensils are out, the rest are put away in a closet to be rotated later.
  • Everything but the cars are rotated with other toys stored in the basement.

playroom redo, kid's toys, organzing toys

  • His power tools are in the top left basket.  Duplos are next to them.  The bottom left basket holds puppets.  Dr.’s kit is in the bottom right.  A wooden stacker is on top. There are plenty of options for baskets on Amazon, like this Set of 6 Foldable Fabric Baskets if you need to purchase some so that everything has a home.
  • All of these toys, except his Duplos are rotated with toys in the basement as well.  As long as he continues to play with his Duplos daily, they will stay out.

large motor play, playroom redo, kid's toys, organizing

He has a lot of large motor toys and I should probably have only kept out half of these.  However, he plays with all of them on a frequent basis.  I had a hard time choosing, so they all stayed out.  This will probably change soon.

kid's bookshelves, playroom redo, kid's toys, organizing

His books are on the wall next to a small reading nook (that really needs to be redone). These Set of 4 Ikea Bekvam Spice Racks make a great place to display books so children can choose by the cover.

These Melissa and Doug Cardboard Blocks are a favorite around here and stack up perfectly below his books.

The Outcome:

Honestly, things are better.

He has more meaningful play with his toys than before the change.

He engages in more pretend play and acts out more complex scenes than I’ve seen him do in months.  It’s refreshing to see him stretching his imagination and to be fully engulfed in his play.

He plays independently. 

Before he wouldn’t walk into his playroom unless was with one of us. Now, he will play quietly for longer periods of time, several times throughout the day.

He still needs attention from us and prefers to play with us.

But, it’s developmentally normal at this age.  I’m just happier that it’s not  ALL DAY long like it was before


Tips for a kids playroom redo:

  • Declutter and get rid of any broken toys or toys that are too young or too old for your child.
  • Divide toys that you’d like to keep in half (or thirds) and only keep out one set of toys at a time.  The rest are stored away.  Rotate the toys on a schedule that works for you.  See how I do it here.
  • Less is More:  Children can easily get overwhelmed with too many toys and will move from toy to toy without really engaging in meaningful play.  The less toys there are, the more attention a child can give them. Plus, less toys means less mess!  Refer to the links below for more information about this.
  • Give every toy a home so that children know where everything goes.  This way they can easily find the toys they want to play with and they can easily put the toys back in their home.  Consider using picture labels to help keep toys organized.

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by Amanda 17 Comments

Filed Under: Play Tagged With: Get Organized, Manage the Toys, Mom Hacks, Parenting, Taking Care of the KIDS

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  1. Kim @ Little Stories

    September 17, 2012 at 1:05 pm

    It looks like a beautiful and accessible play space. I love it!

    Reply
    • Amanda

      September 18, 2012 at 2:11 am

      Thanks Kim! Many of your posts on the topic have really inspired me!

      Reply
  2. CraftyCrunchyMama

    September 17, 2012 at 1:25 pm

    Great post! I will be re-organizing my 15 month old’s play area this week. He doesn’t do a lot of independent play. Hopefully this will help!

    Reply
    • Amanda

      September 18, 2012 at 2:11 am

      I hope so too! Let me know if you have any questions.

      Reply
  3. Sea Mama

    September 17, 2012 at 8:15 pm

    This post is so clear and I love how you illustrated it with great pictures. I recently did a post on Montessori shelving and I’m delighted to see how similar our outlooks on organization are so similar. Thanks for this post, it’s inspiring me to get more motivated to fix some things around my house.

    Reply
    • Amanda

      September 18, 2012 at 2:12 am

      Thanks for the sweet words, Sea Mama!

      Reply
  4. Wendy

    September 18, 2012 at 4:39 am

    I really like the white bins you used with the handles and they have a place for a photo which is awesome so the kids can put toys back where they belong… where did you find them?

    Reply
  5. Anonymous

    September 20, 2012 at 3:46 am

    I just redid our playroom after reading _Simplicity Parenting_, and I was shocked that it turned out to be true–just like you said–that putting away most of the toys means that they aren’t overwhelmed and actually see and use the toys that are out.

    Reply
  6. Amie (Triple T Mum)

    October 11, 2012 at 3:05 pm

    The rearrangement of your child’s play space has come out really well. I hope it is still ticking along nicely 🙂 What I love about toy rotation and didn’t expect is that once the toys are out of the way it allows you to look at the environment and think about making it more inviting.

    Reply
  7. Anonymous

    November 7, 2012 at 4:28 pm

    Thank you four your tips! We´re moving to a new house and I´m trying to plan my kids playroom and your post is very helpful!! =)

    Reply
  8. Renee

    March 11, 2014 at 12:13 am

    Thank-you for sharing, I have a big day tomorrow setting up my sons toy room. Your tips are great!

    Reply
  9. Sarah

    April 24, 2014 at 11:03 pm

    Looks like a fun space! I agree with toy rotating and “less is more”. Whenever I declutter the kids playroom and re-arrange it, they start playing in it more.

    Reply
  10. Jojanneke Voorthuis

    May 30, 2014 at 5:05 am

    Hello I’m from the Netherlands and got here by looking at Pinterest. Ofcourse i’m not the only one having this problem :)! What I suggest you could do is to place a rug in the room. It looks cold to me with the tiles. I did’nt have a rug on our wooden floor (with floorheating!), but after I bought a (cheap) one, my dother likes to play on it for a long time (by her self).
    Sometimes it just isn’t the rotation or layout alone 🙂

    Reply
  11. Paula

    March 20, 2015 at 10:45 am

    Thank you for this Amanda – I always enjoy reading your posts and look forward to implementing some of this when we move back in to our family home! Best, Paula

    Reply
  12. Natalie

    April 21, 2015 at 4:34 pm

    Can you come to my house and do this? :o) Seems no matter how I organize the toys, we always end up with toddler tornado

    Reply
  13. Kristina

    September 10, 2015 at 12:46 pm

    What about those random toys that don’t really belong in a set? Do they all lump together?

    Reply
  14. Syd

    February 22, 2016 at 9:59 am

    This is great! Reorganizing toys always gets my kids to re-discover their toys, find new ways to play with them, and it just feels better when the toys that don’t have a home or are broken beyond repair are removed.
    A side note. I just recently became aware of the dangers of un-anchored furniture and fatal crushing injuries. Seems I am now seeing scary playroom setups everywhere I turn. Read up on it for yourself, but I think the stacked shelving unit could be life threatening to a child that size. Have a fun week!

    Reply

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