A Calmer Approach to Parenting
Here you’ll find proven solutions to getting your children to listen without having to yell and finally creating that calm happy home you’ve always wanted.

Improve your child’s negative behaviors

Become a calmer more confident parent

Build a stronger more loving family
I can help you enjoy parenting your kids.
Hi I’m Amanda Rueter and I believe that it is possible to parent your children peacefully without anger. As a trained Mental Health Therapist and Recovering Angry Mom, I know how hard it can be to keep yourself calm and cool while raising kids.
Whether you’re yelling because your kids won’t listen, overwhelmed by parenting, or you’re just at the end of your rope, I can help.
Messy Motherhood is a place where you can get the support and knowledge you need to not only get your children to actually listen to you but to become a calmer happier parent overall. Every month, I help tens of thousands of parents find calm among the chaos of raising children using my simple yet effective solutions.








How to Get Started
1. Watch the Free Workshop Below
2. Read the simple strategies sent to your email after you sign up
3. Implement the strategies – and watch your family thrive!
In just a few short weeks I went from yelling at my son several times a day to hardly even raising my voice at all. My entire household is more relaxed. When I first started this I felt like I was out of control but Amanda gave me the tools to regain control of MYSELF so that I could become the responsive parent I wanted to be, instead of the reactive parent I had become. Thank you so much, Amanda!!
-Andrea
Free On-Demand Workshop
Ready to get your kids to listen without having to yell or nag? Inside this free workshop you’ll discover how most well-meaning parents are making some key mistakes that make their children listen less…and what to do instead.
If you’re tired of yelling and feeling like the nagging bad guy all the time, this workshop is for you.